If you have ever been in a position where you have approached a girl and been as charming as you can, yet been turned down within seconds of starting to talk the problem wasn’t what you were saying. The problem was the fact that she didn’t want you to come and start talking to her. It is important that you start reading the hidden signs of attraction and realise which girls are actually attracted to you, you will find that you will be a lot more successful speaking to women if they are interested in you.

There is no exact science when it comes to trying to understand what a woman is thinking, but by improving your understanding slightly will change your whole outlook on which women you should approach. Not only that, but you will get a boost of confidence as well because you will come face to face with rejection less often.

The first thing that you will do when you see someone is establish eye-contact. This is completely natural and you will get a natural reaction from her too. The reaction the women gives will give you the first step in making up your mind as to whether or not you should go further. If she gives you a quick brush off and quickly looks away whilst doing her best not to look at you again, you know this is a no-go. However, if you find a woman who is glancing at you and maybe appears slightly shy you should try and keep eye-contact with her a little and also give her a sincere smile.

If you find that a women is making exaggerated movements this will probably be in an attempt to catch your attention so you look again. Just try to gauge if this is on-going or whether her friend just spilled her drink and she shot out of her chair. Also if the girl is moving around and also glancing at you this is a very good sign.

If you are a bit slow on the uptake and a girl speaks to you for any reason at all, don’t cut the conversation short. She wants to create a conversation and it is up to you to keep it going if she makes the first move. If you can naturally turn on the wit then try to make her laugh, a bit of giggling on her part shows that she is keen but don’t try too hard to make her laugh.

If you would like to find out more about our introduction agency please contact us today!

Men have never had the deciding say in a relationship and they never know as much about what is going on between them and their partner. Women always have a better sense for direction when it comes to emotion in a relationship. This is true when you first get together till when you are falling in love. Although you may both feel the same and may both be falling in love, a man will try to hold more control of himself and not express his emotions so freely as to not feel too vulnerable.

There are a few tricks to make him open up a bit more and be more revealing and this can start with the simple process of being allusive. Men love to chase women and as long as he is shown a bit of interest every now and again he will keep coming back for more. Just keep men working and he will fully appreciate your time and company when he finally gets to enjoy them.

The biggest mistake to try to get a guy to fall in love with you is not to be yourself. This could be disastrous because if you do eventually fulfil your goal and he does fall in love with you, you cannot go back to how you are usually because he will more than likely lose interest and this could happen quicker than you think. If you are just yourself from the start then he is the one that misses out if he does not have those feeling for you. You will find that as he gets to know you better he will become more trusting and he will open up and share more with you. This may not come too quickly though and you should never put pressure on him to tell you things he is not comfortable telling you of his own accord. When the time is right he will tell you everything your heart desires.

Most men like to act as alpha males and this means being the man of the house and running the ship. So the best thing you can do is try and make him feel important but don’t submit to his every request. If you continue to give him lavish praise he may become too cocky in the relationship and think that he can get away with more than he should. But if every now and again you give him a genuine and heartfelt compliment you will not only keep him interested, he will most likely want to spend more time with you to hear some more.

If you would like to find out more about our introduction agency please contact us today!

If you like the woman you are going on a date with and want to get to know her better then the ultimate goal on the first date will be to gain a second one. Not the easiest thing to do as you will both be nervous and wary of what you do and say. I wish I could say that there is a rule of thumb for such situations whereby if you do certain things you will get a certain result. This is not the case. You do have to be yourself just don’t be over the top with anything. Subtlety is the key.

It doesn’t matter who you are and what you do, if you turn up to your date late you are looking for trouble. Not only will you already be nervous you will also feel uncomfortable for keeping your date waiting. Your date may not mind this but you could find she is incredibly offended by this gesture or even won’t hang around to get to know you. It is a sign of respect to show up for your date early as to not keep them waiting. However, if she is late try not to over react. If you really can’t tolerate lateness then keep quiet this time and see if it happens again. If you say anything both of you will be on edge during the date and can make for an uncomfortable atmosphere.

Some guys like to make a big impression and will bring a gift for the first date which is a nice gesture. This could backfire though so take heed as she may not like the gift or may not find it appropriate, after all you don’t know each other very well so you may not make the right choice.

All women love to be treated like a queen and this does not mean spending thousands of pounds on her, it just means being chivalrous. Open doors for her, pull out her chair, walk on the curb side of the pavement and give her your coat when you are walking outside. This is a sure fire way to make a woman want to spend more time with you. Don’t just be courteous to her because she will notice how you treat other people. Opening the door for her and then letting it slam shut on the next person is not wise so pay attention. Remember your ‘please’ and ‘thanks’ when speaking to anyone from taxi drivers to waiters. You will score big points and it will not go unnoticed.

If you asked the girl for a meal then you should be expecting to pay, there are a few exceptions to this for instance if she wants to take you out then it could be her obligation. If she doesn’t want to pay after asking you out then she was probably just looking for an evening out with a free meal. When the bill arrives say you are happy to settle it and only if she objects to you paying for her share let her half it. Do not let her pay for the whole meal and pay your half in full. Also tipping the waiters is a good idea as it shows you are not too stingy.

The thing to remember is too listen intently and show interest. Try to keep the conversation about her as everyone loves to be the centre of attention. Don’t neglect to talk about yourself if she is asking you a question, just don’t turn the evening into a show all about you. If you make conversation in the later stages of a date about what she was saying earlier then you will not fail to impress as it shows you were paying attention.

If you would like to find out more about our introduction agency please contact us today!